Monday, April 28, 2008

How do I keep child support a secret from wife

How do I keep child support a secret from wife?
I had a affair behind my wife's back. My ex-mistress has filed for child support and medical support (1 year old son will be on my health insurance). Paternity test came back positive. Is there any way to keep the child support and medical support a secret from my wife? I'm not ready to tell her yet!
Marriage & Divorce - 10 Answers

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I'd be more concerned about the settlement from your impending divorce.
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keeping it a secret will just delay an ugly scene and make it even uglier when she does find out. time to face the music. man up and tell her.
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You have to man up and tell your wife.
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Unless she sees your check stubs, there's no way she would know you were paying support. You may have to explain a sudden decrease in your take-home pay, however. And the medical insurance probably won't be an issue, either. It isn't like they will call her up and tell her about it. Obviously you should be honest with your wife, blah blah blah, you know that. But in answer to your question, it isn't easy but it is possible.
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The child's name will be on your insurance card and online when you pull up insurance info. Plus, the CS people will mail many things to your home. You really need to tell.
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i do not think keeping this a secret is a good thing for you or anyone. just give her medical insurance card no big deal there and see if you can both settle this as adults go to the child support web site to see what you will have to pay and give it to her on your own nothing good ever comes from the court they dont care about you or her just moving a case
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You may not be ready to tell your wife but you have no other choice but tell her now. It's going to be worst for you if you keep this from her because eventually she will find out. You lied to your wife when you cheated behind her back. You didn't tell her the truth about your son. And now you want to keep the child support a secret. How long do you plan to go behind your wifeâ€™s back and pretend that everything is okay? How long do you plan to keep all those secrets from her? Your wife has a right to know everything. She is probably thinking that you have a great marriage but behind her back you cheated on her and had a child with another woman. I'm sorry but I cannot help you with this because I honestly believe that keeping this from your wife is wrong. You need to tell your wife the truth. You may not be ready yet to tell her but she will never be ready to accept what you did behind her back. She may have forgiven you for cheating but to have a baby with another woman is going to destroy her world. But I imagine you werenâ€™t thinking about your wife when you were having an affair behind her back.
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you might be keeping a divorce secret later. be honest!
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Wives are not stupid. She already knows you had an affair, and when she notices the money not coming in like it used to, she's going to add one plus one. A better question would be "how do I tell my wife I fathered a child outside of marriage?" The sooner you do it, the easier it will be. Not that it will be easy, but hey - you should have thought of that sooner, pig.
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its not going to work. they send you monthly statements. its going to be on your health insurance. you might have to go to court. Fess up and maybe somehow your marriage can be saved. I'm just afraid by you trying to hide it - you might end up paying more child support and for longer(through college) because you don't want to deal with it. you might need a lawyer to make sure you are paying the right amount. time to fess up what you did....

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Thursday, April 24, 2008

How do I go about getting health insurance

How do I go about getting health insurance?
I work, but I work part time, I have alot going on right now in my life so I don't have time for a full time job. I may be pragrant but I'm not 100% sure yet. So how do I go about getting health insurance? I'm 19 years old, (I know too young to have a child and so forth, but please, I just need to know about the health insurance) Thanks in advance. Oh and I live in Baltimore, Maryland, if that helps.
Other - Family & Relationships - 0 Answers
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First of, health insurance isn't going to cover your pregnancy if you are already pregnant when you get the insurance. Since you only work part time, your best option is to go to your counties health & human services department and get on state assistance. If you are pregnant, you should qualify for help.

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Sunday, April 20, 2008

What kind of health problems come from black mold

What kind of health problems come from black mold?
We have black mold in our apartment and my child has been very sick this year, does anyone know what kind of health problems are related to black mold?
Respiratory Diseases - 2 Answers

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I believe it will affect the respiratory system. I hope you've insisted the landlord repair whatever is "infected" with the mold. It has to be removed, and you can't be there when the demolition of those areas happen as it'll get in the air even more. You may want to contact the health department. They may be able to offer advice on your rights as a renter. If they can't I'd bet they can get you in touch with who can.
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Beware of the black mold. It does cause one's immune system to deteriorate rapidly. It happened to me last year. This is my story: Last year, I felt ill and had a persistent cough. But the phlegm was not stained or colored. This went on for two months and the doctor told me she was a little worried even though she said my lungs were clear from listening through the stethoscope. A chest x-ray of my lungs did not turn up anything abnormal. Then all of a sudden, my throat went sore for a month and I kept getting a fever frequently. Antibiotics were prescribed . I recovered while I was on antibiotics. But once I finished the course, I will come down with a fever a few days later. I was at wits end and the doctor told me to see an ENT specialist. I told the specialist I was sick for 5 months with on and off fever and sore throat. The first thing he asked me was if there is black mold where I work and I said yes. He immediately told me that I have to move to a place where there is no black mold because the building where I worked is a sick building. The mold I breathed in caused my immune system to deteriorate and unable to fend off any infection. Those strong doses of antibiotics caused my system to be too dependent on them to fight an infection. The sore throat which have plagued me for months is thrush because all the good bacteria in my throat were destroyed by the strong antibiotics. I subsequently requested my boss to put me in an environment where there is no mold so that I can recuperate. The ENT specialist taught me to irrigate my sinuses regularly so that in the event that I breathe in any mold, they are flushed out before they can cause any damage to my immune system. Since I started nasal irrigation, I have not fallen ill once and feel strong and healthy without taking any more meds. I have no more coughs and never suffered from the common cold nor the influenza. I would recommend you to read the following resources: 1. Nasal irrigation http://www.sinusinfectionhelp.com/nasal_irrigation.html http://www.sinusinfectionhelp.com/neti_pot.html Nasal irrigation is especially useful when someone in the family has a cold and you do not wish to get infection. Irrigate your sinuses regularly so that the viruses or bacteria in your sinuses never have the chance to multiply and proliferate thereby causing an infection. I would suggest you get rid of the black mold immediately by getting in the experts. There are also indoor air purifiers which can help remove mold spores released into the air. http://www.sinusinfectionhelp.com/air_purifiers.html Hope this helps. Cheers!

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Wednesday, April 16, 2008

How can I get the local Health Dept. to make a couple clean up the kitchen trash and sewage from their yard

How can I get the local Health Dept. to make a couple clean up the kitchen trash and sewage from their yard?
I have turned these people in to the local health dept. twice and still am gettting no results. My child is living there with my ex-husband of 10 years and I'm afraid he will get sick.
Cleaning & Laundry - 4 Answers
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if the health department wont do anything, call child services and file a complaint with them. if they follow up with a home visit they might just let you take your child. also what are your cities bylaws about trash in yards? if you get enough people to complain they will have to clean it up or the city will send a crew. if they rent their house call their landlord and complain about the eyesore they have created. good luck.
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Very simple call them again and tell them there are RATS all over the place. and this is a health hazard, tell them if they do something about it you will inform the BBC TV NEWS department . YouÂ´ll see how fast they come and do the job. wouldÂ´t be nice if the health department received a bad reputation . Also call the local council & tell them the same thing
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Sounds more like your mad at your ex. But if that is not the case it is not the job of the local health dept to enforce local trash policies. Contact your city workers i.e. Mayor, alderman who ever is in charge.
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You should see my neighbors home. You can't get in the kitchen door and the rest of the place looks like a sump. Calling the Health Dept doesn't work so try Children's Social Service. That's what we had to do.

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Saturday, April 12, 2008

Are there any health benefits for women who have not borne children

Are there any health benefits for women who have not borne children?
I am 40. Two older women at work were sharing hysterectomy stories with me. Both had had two children, both had been found to have a "dead" ovary and extensive uterine fibroids, both had been age 48 at the time of surgery. It made me wonder if my decision to remain childless (one terminated pregnancy before the 3rd month) would affect my health in any beneficial way. I have been on birth control pills since age 18.
Women's Health - 2 Answers

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Not really. Your body is designed to have children, and you'd probably be healthier if you'd given birth at least once. The idea of pregnancy and/or breast feeding destroying a woman's body is a myth. Many children can hurt a woman's health, yes, but a woman who's had one child is usually going to be healthier than one with no children.
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Congratulations on being child free. My girlfriend is 38, and I am 42. We are both 100% child free. I don't think there is much difference in your feminine health. Some men claim that their wife does not "feel" the same on the inside of her xxxx once she had given birth. I have dated both mothers and child free. I never noted anything different that could not be attributed to being a different person. I have noted that most child free people look younger. We are often mistaken for a couple in our 20's. But that is just about the only difference. My brother is younger than I am, and does not go out in the sun as much, but looks much older than I am because he has stepchildren.

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Tuesday, April 8, 2008

can you commit a child in north carolina for mental health.

can you commit a child in north carolina for mental health.?

Psychology - 1 Answers
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A parent or guardian can request hospitalization for a child. The final decision will rest with the admitting physician. ~Dr. B.~

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Friday, April 4, 2008

Is it ethical to restrict human reproduction for the sake of environmental health

Is it ethical to restrict human reproduction for the sake of environmental health?
I'm interested in Religious, human rights and ethical perspectives. Put your self in the same situation as Chinese families are in, with the one child policy, but this time for you it's for the health of the environment. Sustainability of natural resources and waste issues.
Other - Environment - 12 Answers

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No it isn't. Where would all this stop?
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there is 350 million dollars in obamas "stimulus" plan to pay for abortions. when asked about this speaker of the house nancy pelosi said fewer people would stimulate the economy.what a great government.
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quite clearly, we will come to that. we're not there yet, either by #s, or ethics. but we will -- it's only a matter of time. that is, assuming that a war doesn't do the job for us.
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My thoughts are that to save this planet.....we are going to have to restrict the number of children each family can have. Go on to the US census site and watch the population counter and then you tell me how long our planet will support this growth......
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I don't mind a little encouragement via education, access to birth control, or cutting programs that encourage or reinforce family size. I may even support some kick back programs aimed at reducing birth rates. I'm not in favor of any means of actual force to control birth rates (whether aimed at raising or lowering) though.
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I 100% think we should limit the amount of children people are allowed to have. I wouldn't even go as far as to only have one kid, I think two would be just fine. Then you are maintaining the population (with a gentle decline due to death rate) and you don't end up with the "little Princes" issues of the Chinese policy. I can't think of one issue that we face today that would not be improved by fewer people on this earth, period. Education, crime, the environment, everything. Whenever I see people having eight or nine kids, I cringe inwardly and always have to stop myself from asking who is going to pay for their college education (well, not usually anyone, which is a shame). This is all very unrealistic, since the people who have the multiple children don't really see it from a resources perspective. It is quality, not quantity we need in our kids. The resources we have are limited. Place more resources with fewer kids and everyone wins.
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Is breeding a right? Look at it from the child's perspective. Doesn't a new born child have rights? Doesn't a child deserve to be born to a responsible family who has sense enough to prepare financially beforehand? If breeding is a right then how can we morally get our pets fixed?
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In the study of population dynamics there are three recognised factor that control population size Famine Disease Predation (War and crime are the human equivalents) If we do not find some equitable political solution to the exponential rise in the human population, these natural factor will do it for us.
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Unfortunately, our economy is predicated on a growing population to pay for things such as social security (and all the pet projects that congress raids the social security fund to pay for). Thus, we have a tax structure that makes it easier to take advantage of the rest of the people by having large families. If income tax stopped giving exemptions for children when the couple reached two (by natural childbirth, as opposed to adoption), it could get more orphans adopted and dissuade people from breeding indiscriminately. When you already have six children and get eight more implanted, I see this as an egregious abuse of the system.
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I think the question should be is it ethical not to? Is it right to bring 10 kids into a world of poverty and pain with no hope for anything ever getting better, or should one kid be brought into the world with comforts, health and a good life ahead of them?
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Unfortunately it is the concerned humans who are willing to have smaller families, and the people who do not care a twit about the environment are the ones who over populate with lots of kids. Go figure.
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yes this is right. When you go there and see how economy is crumbling because of it. You will see the reason.

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Tuesday, April 1, 2008

Child support court order, health insurance court order..eligible for Medicaid

Child support court order, health insurance court order..eligible for Medicaid????

Insurance - 2 Answers
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If you qualify for Medicaid it would be health insurance. Just go fill out the paperwork.
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Let me see if I interpreted right... You were ordered to pay support, and you were ordered to get health insurance for the child. You are asking if you can get medicaid as your insurance for the child??? If that is the question, the answer is no. In order for you to sign the child up for medicaid the child has to live with you. The health insurance that you are required to get has to come through your employer as the non-residential parent.

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